For Chandler With Love

Life in our new town ..

2010-01-30T17:36:00.029-05:00

We're in Richmond, Virginia now. We made the big move in Early September of last year. We have been blessed beyond imagine here in our new town but of course sure do miss our dear friends back in Charlotte. Chandler has adjusted so well to all the change from new schools to new homes and the like. She just goes with the flow and each day I continue to be in complete awe of her.

Thanks again for following along on our journey and I promise not to make it so long between posts next time. :)

Chan and Mommy hugs

Chandler and John at Sunday Brunch

Sharing a show with Chandler's bff on a visit back to SC

Deb and Kristen stopped by while we were in SC. We sure do love and miss them

We made a winter trip to the Outerbanks after Christmas. Here's Chandler in front of Nagshead Lighthouse.

Chandler flying a kite with her new friend Quinn

Chandler and her pal Quinn making a sand castle (a frozen one!)

YAY! The Price Family came to see us in Richmond. Here's Chan with "her guys" as she calls them.

Chandler lovin' her Unble Bob

We spent the afternoon with the Price's at Maymont Park. We can't wait for them to come back soon. They're the best!

It's Christmas! Say cheese! We had a great time in Raleigh at Von andChris's house for Christmas Day Part I.

The coolest kids... my niece and nephew with Chan on Christmas morning.

Natalie showing Chandler and Ethan her new froggies

More presents for Chandler at Christmas Day Part II in New Kent, VA at John's family's home.

Chandler snuggling with Miss Mary on Christmas Night

Chandler's first REAL snow storm! Unfortunately, this was an unusal winter in the south. We had THREE big snow storms of nearly a foot each time. Chandler's favorite part was eating the snow. She says its ice cream!

My little snow bunny!

Grampie comes to visit us in Richmond

Lovin' on Nana!

Chandler was counting down the days for Christmas this year. She loved helping to wrap gifts and make decorations. She's quite the helper.

Chandler sizing up the Snow Queen just before seeing Santa.

Obviously, Santa was a little over-rated this year. Better luck next year. :)

Another gorgeous December Day at Maymont

We spent Thanksgiving in Raleigh at Von and Chris's. So much fun!

Grampie and the girls.

Cousins!

Grampie with his kiddos!

Natalie and Chan chasing each other

BFF's our first visit back to Charlotte after the move. Riley and Chan have fun "catching up".

Chandler loved dressing up like Zoey for Halloween.

Chandler hanging near the band at our first Oyster Roast experience!

Chandler doing what she loves best.... jumping! Here she is at her school's Fall Harvest Festival.

At the river...

Chandler's first trip to the nail salon with Mommy. Thank goodness we had the dvd player. She was a perfect angel.

Just cute!

Aunt Yvonne, Natalie and Chandler in Charlotte after Chandler's 2nd Birthday Party

Aunt Yvonne, Natalie and Chan playing with new birthday toys.

My little fashion plate

YAY! Nana flew in for Chan's 2nd birthday party. We were so happy she could be there to celebrate Chan's special day.

Chandler with friends Riley and Kyle at her party. Now this was fun!

Chandler with Friend Kevin discussing their plan to win this game.

Nana and her girls. xoxo!

Weeeeeeeee! Chan's party was at a cool jumping place and as you can see, she loved every minute!

Good friends are the best! Riley, Hayden and Chan plus a little sugar to boot!

Our new sitter/teacher friend, Miss Lindsay. Chandler just adores her.

Nana and Chandler always have waaaaayyyy too much fun together!

Opening more presents at Chan's party. Kai-Lan games are cool.

Hanging with Riley and getting ready for the big move.

Jeanne and Riley were so wonderful to help us with our move. We sure do miss them big.

Chan's first day at her new school. Homework, already?

One year ago today..... Gotcha Day!

2009-08-25T22:25:00.014-04:00

One year ago today, Little Chandler Elise was handed to me for the very first time. It was the most incredible day of my life! Not a single day goes by that I don't just marvel at God's graciousness for allowing me to be this little treasure's mommy. She lights up every part of my world.

My post from China on Gotcha Day last year:
http://forchandlerwithlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/meet-chandler-elise-very-happy-baby.html

Here we are at the Civil Affairs office in Nanning, China just moments after we were united.

Less than an hour later back at the hotel

Our first evening together with Nana in Nanning. This is where Chandler really started to show her true personality with lots of smiles. Just the thought of this day brings me to tears of joy.

Celebrating our Gotcha Day Anniversary at the Botanical Gardens in Richmond, VA. My second favorite day ever!! :) Just look at this cutie pie.

Running through the gardens

The fountains were the biggest hit of all. What a fun way to cool off.

"Catch me, Mama!"

A terrific way to end Gotcha Day Anniversary with yummy Chinese food at Sticky Rice near Downtwon Richmond. We were so lucky to have Auntie Jen join us. The day could not have been more perfect!

One Year Ago Today.... Chandler's Referral

2009-07-07T21:25:00.008-04:00

This photo was taken exactly one year ago today when Chandler was in her loving foster home in China. I can only imagine how much they must miss her.

That same day marks one that I will never forget. One wonderful year ago today I received THE call from my adoption agency with the news that Lin Ying Lin (now known as Chandler Elise Lin) was ready for me. Second only to the day I met Chandler, it was the most incredible day of my life. I remember being so excited when my cell phone rang and I saw the agency's number show up on my caller id. Within 20 minutes I received these two photos of my precious baby girl.

Chandler Elise Lin at Yulin SWI on 1/24/08.... waiting patiently for Mama.

I was instantly in love with her but never did I know how much I would come to truly adore this little person.

To celebrate this special occasion, Chandler and I went to our favorite Chinese Restaurant tonight, Red Bowl, for dinner. We'll be sure to make this a tradition and celebrate this special day every year to come. Thank you all for providing the constant love and support to our little family. We so much appreciate you!

Updates for May thru July 4th.... Summer Fun!

2009-06-29T22:14:00.021-04:00

Greetings to all our family and friends! To say that Chandler and I are enjoying our first Summer together is an understatement. I've done my best to recap the last few months starting with our trip to Maine for the 4th of July and going back to Early May when I celebrated my first Mother's Day and lots of fun in between. Chandler is growing up right before my eyes. She continues to amaze me with her vocabulary and her singing is the best. She has a true love for music. Our trips to and from school each day are not complete without hearing Chan sing one of her many favorite nursery rhymes. (knowing the actual words is optional) This child has the most amazing spirit and while I know I am slightly biased, most people who meet even say the same. She continue to tackle each day like it's Christmas Eve. I am sooooo blessed! Thanks as always for following along on our journey.

For the 4th of July weekend, we flew to Maine for my cousin Michael's wedding. What a beautiful ceremony and reception. It was a wonderful celebration and reunion of our family. We're both very blessed to be part of this family.

My nephew Ethan and I in Portland, ME. He's such an amazing kid. Sweet, smart, cool, funny and super cute. Am I a proud Aunt, or what?

Aunt Susie and Michael dancing for the mother-son dance

Chandler playing some ball with Uncle Bob

and sharing snacks with Couisn Sara

Chandler and her Auntie Von taking a stroll around the reception

Uncle Jim gives the best helicopter rides. I remember taking a few several years ago!

Natalie and Chan watching the wedding ceremony

Ethan, Natalie and Von

Uncle Chris and Chan before she heads out to find more froggies

Steve, Aunt Susie, Uncle Jim, Aunt Ann and Joann afer the ceremony

What a beautiful setting for the wedding. The ran came and left quickly so the rest of the day was perfect.

Chandler keeping herself busy during the outdoor wedding ceremony

Me and my pretty girl

Steve, Sara, Aunt Susie and Uncle Jim watching the ceremony

Amber, Michael and the wedding party

Chandler just loves her cousins Ethan and Natalie. Before the wedding we drove over to a beautiful light house in Portland for photo opps

Channie the Chatterbox!

The evening before the wedding we went to Aunt Susies where the kids had a blast catching frogs in their pond and playing with the bunnies. Chandler is a real animal lover.

Grampi showing Chan the froggie he caught. Eww!

Happy 4th of July. Although she's never actually told me, I believe Channie really loves being an American!!

91.9 Faith Family and Friends Concert on 6/27/09. Chandler and her BFF Riley made their own box seats!

There's a reason this photo is blurred. The girls were having too much fun to stay still. In big crowds Chandler wears here monkey backpack/leash so we don't lose her. Riley loves holding it to be sure she doesn't get away! When the girls are together the sound of their giggles melts me.

Unble Chad took us for a boat ride last Sunday. It was a toasty 90+ day here in the Carolinas so the timing was just perfect. Love the glasses, Chad!

Now that was fun!

Chan even took a dip in Lake Wylie with Mama. She's so brave!

Too cute!

In Late June Chandler and I made a quick weekend trip to the beach. I bought special floaties, sand toys and bubbles but by far Chandler's favorite part of the trip was riding the rides at the outlet mall.

She truly loved this ride and even gave the doggie a kiss to show it.

"Cheese, Mama!"

"Uh oh, Mama!"

This picture says it all.... Chandler is not a fan of the sand. She said "Too messy, Mama!" While she loves swimming at the pool at home, the ocean terrified her. Maybe next year.

We were so fortunate to catch up with Jeanne and Riley while we were at the beach. Riley was like a fish and just loved everything about it. Chandler on the other hand, not so much.

A few of the battle wounds from Chandler's jump at school. The teacher called one day to say Chandler attempted to fly and jumped from the top of the slide into a pile of wood chips. Thankfully she just had a few scrapes that have healed perfectly. Whew! She sure does keep us hopping.

How fun is this? I had to work a few weekends in June so Nana came to watch Chandler. We walked over to Bruester's one evening for ice cream. No doubt about it, Chandler gets her sweet tooth from her mommy. And to watch her eat the cone is simply entertaining.

And there's more at the bottom? Cool!

Who cares about a few scrapes from her playground incident? Chandler sure doesn't.

Ah the good life!

Riley keeping tabs on Chandler again at the Pops in the Park Concert

Story time at Pops in the Park

Party time! Chandler had a blast at her classmate Isabella's 2nd Birthday Party at Gymboree

All of the classes at Chandler's school move up in May so unfortunatley, she's no longer in the same class as Alex and Abby pictured here at Bella's party. The 3 were inseparable and just love each other to pieces. Each day when she would arrive to class they would come running with big hugs for her.

Chandler helps Mama put together her new Fun Flow Sink. This is the best toy ever!

She just loves this toy. She'd play in it every day if she could.

I'm not sure this was intended to be a swim toy but what the heck, why not?!

Thanks Warren Kids for the great recommendation in this toy. We just love it.

Silly Chandler!

Chandler taking her first swim of the year. Kevin Prescott is such a great and patient friend to show Chan around his pool.

My trip to Minneapolis for work in May brought two extra special bonuses. 1) I got to have dinner with my dear friend Joni and her daughter Tori one night and 2) I finally go to meet Beth who also has a Yulin City baby. We met online the day I received Chandler's referral. She and her husband adopted Little Hope a year before I met Chandler. We've stayed in close touch since we first chatted a year ago but this was our first time meeting in person. We chatted for hours like we'd known each other for years. What a great lady that I'm so blessed to know.

As we were headed to NY to visit my friend Donna and her family, we were so thrilled to by chance meet up with her folks at the Charlotte Airport. On their way to the Bahamas, they had an unexpected layover in Charlotte at the gate just next to ours. It couldn't have worked better if we had planned it. What a nice surprise to see these dear friends we consider family.

Tom Warren swinging Chandler and the twins. Their yard is like Disney World!

Chandler and Cole giggling over some glow sticks

In Late May we flew to NY to visit my good friend from college, Donna Warren and family. Alexa is 5 and the twins Cole and Gracie are 2. They have more toys than our local Toys R Us so Chandler was pretty close to Heaven there. She just adored the kids and their toys too. We all had so much fun that weekend.

Chan and the Warren kiddos

Riley and Chandler giggling as Chandler tries to sway Riley to become a thumb sucker. They are so cute together.

Chan just cracks up her nana. Here they are Rivergate just after dinner.

Nana and Chan having a silly time

Can you tell that Chan just adores her cousin Natalie?

In May I had to travel to Minnesota for a week for work. Nana was so kind to come down to watch Chandler for me while I was away. They actually went to Raleigh and hung out with Auntie Von and Family for the week. Chan had such a blast.

I just love being Chandler's mommy!

Mother's Day 2009 at Baxter Village in Fort Mill, SC. I was able to spend my first mother's day with not only my special baby girl but with my own mother, sister and niece as well. What a special day!

Click-clack-moo... this one of Chan's favorite books. Thanks, Joni and Tori.

My First Mother's Day!!

2009-06-22T22:44:00.001-04:00

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What a blessing to spend Mother's Day this year not only with my own mother, my sister and niece, but also my precious very own daughter, Chandler Elise.

Time sure does fly when we're having fun!

2009-04-28T05:37:00.013-04:00

Greetings and Happy Spring (almost Summer in SC),

It's been far too long since my last entry so let me make this a quick attempt to catch up. Well, after several double ear infections and visits to the pediatrician, in Late January Chandler had the procedure to have tubes placed in her ears. What a blessing! Since then she's been ear infection free as well as free of the pain and suffering that go with them. Who knew it was that simple? Anyhow, now it is Spring and nearly Summer here in South Carolina. In the last several weeks we've enjoyed back to back visits from friends and family. We couldn't be more blessed with such loving people in our lives. Chandler of course has just loved the extra audience and attention. She's growing up so quickly and I continue to be in complete awe of this little person. She is a little sponge and just amazes me with how fast she learns new words. Every day she comes home from school with something new that just floors me. Just as I was leaving for China, a co-worker who is also a parent, promised me that I would fall in love with this child more and more each day. Boy, was he ever right. I just can't imagine my life any other way than with her in it. She's 19 months now and while no where close to being the infamous Terrible Two, she sure is CURIOUS! If there is a baby proofing product out there, we have it and probably two of them. She's loves to explore and most recently she did so with the makeup drawer while I was in the shower. Every day is a new adventure for us both. I was just telling someone the other day how much she inspires me to stay positive and embrace everything that comes my way. Chandler wakes up in the morning with a smile and goes to bed the same way. She's approaches each day like its Christmas Eve. I could go on and on but for now I'll just say, I'm smitten and truly just love being her mommy. Enjoy the pics and thank you for being a special part of our journey.

Gramma Punker and Grampa Chuck have come to visit each Wednesday from VA for the past several weeks while Gramma is taking classes here in Charlotte. We've so much enjoyed their company.

How big is Channie? Soooo big! Auntie Kelly and Cousin Tanner came to visit from Cleveland. While I was at work, they took Chandler on all sorts of fun adventures. We miss them already and can't wait to make a visit to Cleveland soon.

Kelly and I took the kids to Monkey Joe's one day where they have lots of blow ups to jump in. (Tanner's is the background planning his next jump) Chandler so desparately wanted to be like the big kids that day.

Auntie Kelly and I found a toddler area where Chandler was able to do some of her drawing on the chalk board. She was blue from head to toe when we left but how cute is this picture?

We journeyed to the Riverbanks Zoo in Columbia, SC one day. The weather was beautiful and it was such a fun day for us.

Tanner was such a good sport with Chandler. I don't know many of 8 year old boys that would tend to her the way he did. She's still calling for "Tanler" to come back to visit.

Grampi came to visit for Easter Weekend. Not only did he fix Chan's 4 wheeler, he also baby proofed our home from top to bottom. Thanks for keeping us safe, Grampi!

A Happy Easter Kiss from Chandler!

Grampi took us to Cracker Barrel after a fun day at the Lazy Five Ranch

Chandler just loves to swing! Weeeeeeeee!

Feeding the animals with Grampi at the Lazy 5 Ranch in Mooresville, NC

Testing out the new chair made just for Chandler

Chandler was a big help to Grampi when putting the chair together

(an Adirondack chair, of course!)

In Early April our friends Joni and Tori from Minnesota came to visit. Here the gals enjoyed a building this masterpiece that Chandler later helped destroy!

Tori, Joni and Chandler at the Science Center posing for the weather station simulation

Nana came to visit in Late March and gave me a nice break to get some much needed things done around the house. Here Chandler and Nana enjoy some laughs over dinner. Chandler can even make fast food fun!

Chandler's first Easter Egg Hunt sponsored by our neighborhood HOA.

Tori was such a good coach for Chandler's first egg hunt. I'm pretty sure we'll do it again next year. We've already started planning for Tori's return the same weekend in 2010!

My girl on the hunt for eggs!

Chandler and Nana enjoying one of our first Spring days together.

Another exciting evening at Chuck E. Cheese

Chandler learned so many new word when Nana was here. They read for hours together. Chandler is just a sponge and is speaking so clearly now and can even say OCTOPUS thanks to Nana.

Nida came to visit from Cleveland in late February. Unfortunately, Chandler was not feeling so well that weekend AND it was our big snow fall of the year with 6+ inches. Charlotte was completely shut down. We're anxious for Nida to return to our beautiful Summer like weather now.

BFFs Riley and Chandler on a pretty intense roller coaster 'ride' at Chuck E. Cheese

Our first long road trip. In February we drove to Richmond to visit Auntie Jen. Chandler did great on the long drive with her new portable DVD player. Barney to the rescue again.

One of my very favorite pictures taken at the FCC Charlotte Chapter's annual Chinese New Year party.

Chandler being Chandler

Visiting with dear Cousins Natalie and Ethan in Raleigh

Natalie and Chan hamming it up!

Happy Chinese New Year

2009-02-07T07:47:00.008-05:00

I'm a little behind in posting this ..... Chinese New Year was actually January 26th. A few weeks ago we flew to Philadelphia for a big CNY party hosted by LaVida, our adoption agency. We had so much fun and the best part was that we got to see most of the families we traveled to China with. We even stayed with one family for the long weekend who we've become great friends with. Here are some of my fav pics from our time there. We look forward to making this trip each year to celebrate the CNY and reunite with our dear travel friends.

I'm bummed this one is out of focus but it really captures the moment. These 3 little girls (Megan, Joanna and Danielle) were in our travel group to China to get their new baby sisters. They were so sweet to Chandler and even helped confirm her nickname of Channie! Chan just adores them and so do I.

I love these kids!

Chan sure loves them too! (Danielle and Joanna with Chan is this pic)

I met my friend Candice in Phillie in April '08 for a travel prep meeting. Even though we didn't travel together, we've stayed in touch and it was so nice to finally meet Little Georgia.

Party Girl!

Chandler is the only one on the dance floor in this one. No fear! I guess she was making a request for one of her favorite songs.

Dance Dance Dance

Four of the seven families from our
travel group. Friends for life!

We stayed with Marie, Brian and Jade. Jade shares a birthday with Chandler and came to the orphanage a day after Jade. While not identical, more and more we wonder if they're twins or at least cousins. We're hoping to have them tested sometime this year. Regardless, we are great friends with Jade and her parents now.

Sharing some bath toys

Auntie Marie with our squirmy girls ~ What we put these kids through for a cute picture! :)

Doing some work in the kitchen. I couldn't resist the matching outfits.

Our unforgettable ride to the airport. The girls played the game of who could fake cough louder. They cracked themselves and their moms up!

Early January Trip to the Adirondacks

2009-01-20T08:51:00.009-05:00

Now this is REAL snow! I had some work to do in Burlington, Vermont earlier this month so had the opportunity to go visit Nana and Grampi. As you can see, while Chandler looks like a beautiful snow bunny, she's no fan of the cold. If I could read her mind in the photo above I bet she was saying, "Do people really live in this stuff?"

Our friend Beverly stopped by Nana's with her sweet pup to visit with us.

Chan and Grampi chatting over drinks!

Poor Nana has a big boo boo with her broken arm so Chandler spent the day taking care of her while I did some work.

Grampi is the coolest with a real scanner.

Being gentle with Nana's boo boo.

Here's the Grampi and Nana Paparrazi snapping photos of Chandler while she made a few calls from the airport.

Chandler's a world traveler so of course she leads the way for her grandparents at the airport.

A Snow Day in South Carolina!

2009-01-20T08:30:00.004-05:00

Happy Snow Day Y'all!!

Today marks our first (and likely only) snow fall of the year. Well, if you want to call it that. I didn't even bother watching the news this morning or calling the daycare weatherline when I woke up and saw the DUSTING of snow on the ground. As we're driving to school and work this morning I noticed how few people were on the road so decided I better call the weatherlines and sure enough, daycare is completely closed and work is on a two hour delay! Too funny! I guess that dusting of snow really scares these true southerners. :) So we turned around and found a perfect Kodak moment. Here's my girl checking out the snow. She's not a big fan of the cold weather but she was definitely curious to see what all the hype was about.

Chandler's First Christmas (in the U.S.A.)

2008-12-28T17:26:00.010-05:00

Christmas 2008 was so much fun and more special than I ever could have imagined. The years of waiting for my little pumpkin were so worth the wait. We had so much fun going to Christmas parties and visiting friends all month. And the week before Christmas, Nana flew in and spent several days just playing from morning 'til night with this little munchkin. On Christmas Eve we drove to Raleigh to Auntie Von's and family for a special first Christmas celebration. Thankfully we made it there just as Santa was nearing the U.S. (per the Norad online tracker). While not easy, especially for Cousin Natalie, we all made it to bed before he arrived. On Christmas Day we enjoyed watching the kids open gifts. Chandler was a little overwhelmed at first but then warmed up to the idea of ripping paper and emptying boxes. She would be content with a pile of tissue paper. :) Auntie Von and Uncle Chris prepared yummy meals for us too. I had to work Friday so we headed back to Charlotte late Christmas Evening. A great time indeed!

One day we came home to find this fabulous pink 4-wheeler on the porch courtesy of Auntie Kelly Jo and family from Cleveland, Ohio. We finally put it together today. Can you tell Chan loves it? Watch out Grampie, next she'll be jet skiing with you and Ethan!

Chandler imagining herself riding this vehicle through the neighborhood! Very Cool!!!

In Raleigh on Christmas Day....Cousin Natalie showing Chandler the proper way to wear a headband. I just love Chan's expression as she watches her so intently.

Another keyboard lesson after breakfast.

Nana helping Chandler as she pretends to drink out of her very own personalized mug.

The girls admiring Natalie's new American Girl doll, Julie.

Cousin Natalie sharing a bangle bracelet with Chandler.

Shucks, just a little too big. Chandler was really hoping Natalie's new sparkly shoes would fit.

Natalie and Ethan all hugs in the Christmas Spirit.

Chandler is especially fond of Cousin Ethan too. Don't worry, Ethan....Shouldn't be long and she can play X-Box too.

Nana and her girls.

Chandler modeling her new coat and headband from my childhood friend Michelle and family.

It's hard to believe our first Christmas has come and gone but certainly a memory I will always treasure. It was a wonderful month with friends and family. We wish you all a very Happy New Year in 2009!!!

Christmas parties, dress up time and a sleigh ride

2008-12-18T21:48:00.007-05:00

This Christmas stuff sure is fun!

Taking a sleigh ride last Sunday with good our friends Jeanne and Riley

Patiently waiting on line for the sleigh ride.

Chandler and her BFF Riley while we waited for the next wagon. It was such a beautiful night. The horse drawn wagon took us through a lovely Charlotte neighborhood lined with lighted luminaries. Even Santa was on our wagon. We all sang Christmas carols throughout the ride. Can't wait to do it again next year.

Our dear friends Anne and Jillian at the Hands On Children's Center in Asheville, NC. We had so much fun there. Chandler had a blast playing with Jillian and our new friend Celia and she loved the dress up area. Hope to get back there again soon.

My little princess taking a well deserved thumb break!

Keeping up with the big girls sure is fun but certainly not an easy job for just anyone. Chandler didn't back down to the challenge.

Princess Chandler with fellow Princess Jillian and "Beast Celia" (from Beauty and the Beast).

Doc Chandler in the house!

Whew, who knew having hair would be so hard to keep up with?

Life is good!

Chandler makes another trip to Chuck E. Cheese for our friend Hayden's 3rd birthday party. She was a little under the weather this day but didn't let it stop her from a very fun time.

Chandler and BFF Riley at the Charlotte Chapter of Families With Children From China's Christmas Party. Chandler enjoyed showing off her new walking skills to Riley.

The most wonderful Christmas present imaginable... my Sweet Chandler.

Chandler's First Thanksgiving & More...

2008-12-03T22:04:00.014-05:00

Now that is one cute kid!!

Hello All,

Can you believe it is December already? Well, no sooner did I submit the last post about Chandler feeling all better did she come down with ANOTHER cold and ear infection. This one was a doozie as it really made her miserable. This was really my first experience seeing her cry at length and it was heart breaking. Even after she had started the antibiotic her fever was raging so I we made our first and hopefully last visit to the E.R. It was so sweet of Auntie Kelly to meet us there for moral support. What a dear friend she is. The doctor said she likely had a viral infection on top of the bacterial one so we just had to wait it out. Thankfully a few days later her high fever broke and she was feeling better again. I couldn't be happier to see her back to her silly self again. She was better just in time for Thanksgiving so we made our first road trip together to Raleigh to see Auntie Von and crew. Yvonne and Chris prepared a delicious Thanksgiving Dinner. Considering this was Chandler's first REAL homecooked meal, she ate like it was her last meal. It's actually amazing the amount of food this little person consumes. Well anyhow we had a wonderful time there and really appreciate all the hugs and kisses Chandler received. We're excited to go back for Christmas.

Chandler at Thanksgiving helping Grampi brush his hair. Those two sure did have fun together.

Chandler and Auntie Von all smiles!

Playing video games with Cousin Ethan sure was exhausting!

Chandler showing Ethan some pictures from our time in China.

My girls bonding with some books. I thought it was so funny that out of all of the books Natalie had for her to choose from, Chandler chose the one paperback to "read"!

Natalie teaching Chandler how to play the keyboards. You can imagine how lovely Chandler's song was.

Don't you just hate it when you get mac & cheese on your eyebrow? Chandler, by the way, is an amazing eater. She's not a bit fussy and will pretty much keep eating until you stop feeding her. It's unbelievable almost considering she's still only 19 pounds. I'd love that kind of metabolism!

Chandler and Nana last month playing a cool game at Chuck E. Cheese. It wasn't easy but with Chandler's help, I believe they won.

Chandler and Nana's very own portrait from Chuck E. Cheese. Just precious!

Catching up

2008-11-09T18:25:00.016-05:00

Sorry it has been a while. Those stinky colds really knocked us out but we're better now and happy to be back to our old selves. Here are some photos since our last post....

My happy girl on her second sick day earlier this month. Her fever spiked again so we stayed home this day with some new meds. I mean really, does this look like a sick child? She's a hoot!

Grampi made a visit to the Carolinas the end of last month with his first stop in Raleigh to see Cousins Ethan and Natalie and then on to Charlotte to see Chandler. He was here for Halloween so got to see Channie as Piglet. Here they are doing a little of Chandler's "homework".

Grampi is a great walking coach and in no time Chandler was taking several steps at a time.

The next day we took a trip to Discovery Place. Even with her little cold, Chandler loved playing with all of the new toys. She is one child who never tires when there are toys around.

Auntie Kelly turned 30 that weekend and guess what she did to celebrate? She went skydiving! It was a beautiful day and awesome to see. We are so proud of her for being so brave.

Here's Auntie Kelly celebrating her 30th in style!
YAY! Earlier this month while Chandler was still a little under the weather, Nana came for a whole week to watch her while I was at work. Nana sure does have the magic touch since within two days Chandler was all better and ready to play non-stop. They went to the park to swing every single day. I am not sure who actually had more fun but I do know they both we're smiling like this every time I looked. Chandler sure is blessed to have such wonderful grandparents who just love her to pieces and are so much fun. The times I spent with my own grandparents as a little girl are treasured memories and I'm sure it will be no different for Channie.

This little girl just loves to swing. I'm sad the weather's getting colder now so are days at the playground will be few and far between for a while. Thankfully we're in the Carolinas so Spring will be here before we know it.

Happy almost Thanksgiving to all. We're very thankful you're in our lives!

Happy Halloween from Piglet

2008-11-01T03:16:00.005-04:00

It's Piglet!!

I know she had to be thinking, "Mom, you can't be serious!"

In case you ever wondered what Piglet eats.....Pepperidge Farm's goldfish crackers!

Channie (aka Piglet) taking her first pony ride at school for the Fall Party.

The colds are back and so is Chef Chandler

2008-10-29T06:03:00.003-04:00

Introducing Chef Chandler!! She decorated this beautiful masterpiece on Monday at school.

Excuse the runny nose and rosy cheeks.... I guess even chefs get colds sometimes.

Our Mommy-Daughter 2 for 1 visit on Tuesday to Urgent Care for our colds. She was such a big girl and liked the gentle doctor.

Unfortunately, our colds came back or at least just reared themselves more noticeably. It broke my heart to hear Channie so congested on Monday night. Upon Nana's wonderful suggestion, we made a one stop shop at the Urgent Care yesterday morning. When they asked which one of us was the patient, I simply replied BOTH of us. Well, after I filled out tons of paperwork we saw a very nice doctor who prescribed some meds. Ironically enough, Chandler and I were prescribed the same kind of antibiotic. Anyhow, we're officially on the mend. We have our fingers crossed that Little Chandler will be feeling better by Friday so she can do some trick or treating. Wait until you see her in the costume! :) Oh, and the good news is, Channie now weighs 18 pounds and 14 ounces. WOOHOO! Only a little more than a pound to go and we can turn that stinkin' car seat around.

All better!

2008-10-25T04:03:00.008-04:00

Here's Channie on her first sick day! Looks like a bad case of playing hookie to me.

Here's the face I get when I tell Channie "No". I think she's pretending she doesn't yet understand English.

Too cute for words

"Look Mom, No hands!!" Channie watching one of her shows and standing on her own like a big girl.

Channie at school with her buddies Leah and Turner.

Chandler is officially back in business! We stayed home on Wednesday to ensure she was fever free for 24 hours and then we were back to work/school on Thursday. I have to admit that even though I worked from home on Wednesday, it really was so nice to have the day with her. It was pretty comical when I think about how I changed a VERY dirty diaper and participated in a conference call at the same time. I'm sure I'm not the first to do this but it was my first for sure. Chandler was so good and occupied herself with her shows and toys when I couldn't be right there to play with her. All I can say is Thank God for the mute button during some of those calls. Chandler is quite chatty at times and that day was no exception. Most importantly of course is that she's feeling well again. Unfortunately, we seem to be swapping these colds back and forth. By last night my voice had pretty much left me and the icky achy feeling was back. Oh well, I know this is just part of being a mom and I wouldn't trade this runny nose for anything!

Thankfully, no more incidents at day care to report of. Channie continues to love it there which makes me so happy. I stopped over to see her on my lunch hour on Thursday and Friday to give her some meds for the cold. I just love to see her beautiful little face light up when she sees me peeking through the window. Yesterday I stayed for a while and TRIED to play with some of her little friends. Chandler made it clear I was HER mommy and NOT theirs. As she pushed Little Addison and Jerry away from me I could imagine her saying, "Go get your own mommy!" Too funny!!

She is still not entertaining the thought of taking any steps on her own. She will stand now for quite a while but if she needs to get anywhere she just plops to the ground and takes off crawling. I look forward to seeing her walking one day soon but in her own time, of course. I have a feeling once she starts I am going to be in BIG TROUBLE! :)

Chandler's first sick day:( + 2 incident reports

2008-10-21T19:01:00.007-04:00

Booooooo! Last night Chandler's little nose started to run and she was sneezing like crazy. When she woke up this morning she didn't have a temp but wasn't her happy girl self. When I dropped her at school this morning I asked her teachers to keep an eye out for her. Sure enough, I received a call from school at about 3pm today that our little pumpkin was running a 101.5 temp. Miss Tonya, one of her teachers, said she was having a blast as usual but burning up. This was my first call FROM school so I booked out of work like the building was on fire. I'm sure this is normal for new mom's but it was pretty fast and look back on it, probably pretty funny, I must admit. Anyhow, after I called the pediatrician who assured me that she'd be okay, I was at school to pick her up. She is back to her happy self as usual tonight but now with rosy cheeks and a runny nose. Poor sweetie! Looks like Mommy will be working from home tomorrow so we can keep an eye on her fever.

Now I must share about Chandler's two back to back incident report days. This is actually quite humorous. These reports are completed by the teachers at school any time the children get hurt, even the slightest bump. Well, yesterday was Chandler's first incident report. Apparently she and another child bumped heads, literally. I do this all the time at work, but not literally usually! Anyhow, no biggie on that one. She recovered instantly and quite honestly if we kept incident reports at home, we'd have at least 5 a day with this wild girl! So today was THE big incident. When I called in to check on Chandler this morning and before we knew about her fever, they said she had another "incident". This time while she was playing with a toy another child tried to take it from her. When Chandler wouldn't give it to the child, he/she bit her. I say "he/she" since the school doesn't disclose to me which child bit her. I can't tell you how bad I wanted to ask but I was good and did not. :) I thought it was cute when the teacher said normally Chandler will just walk away if someone wants her toy but this time she must have wanted this one bad. Anyhow, no serious injury once again, just a cute story for the scrapbook.

And lastly I must ask, what happened to our beautiful Summer weather or even Fall weather for that matter? We woke up yesterday morning to a brisk 36 degrees. This is very cold for Charlotte at this time of year, especially considering it was in the 80's last week. I see only one good thing about this which is of course that Chandler gets to wear all these cute winter hats. I think she likes them too!

Thank you Auntie Kelly Jo

2008-10-21T03:03:00.004-04:00

Bummer! Unfortunately, Auntie Kelly Jo had to return to her home in Cleveland, Ohio on Saturday. We were sad to see her go but can't wait for her to return for Spring Break in '09. And as an added bonus, Uncle Bob and Cousins Dustin and Tanner will be coming then too. Yay! As you can see from the photos, Chandler and Auntie Kelly Jo bonded instantly. I loved coming home from work each day to see the two of them into something new. The best was when Auntie taught Chandler to blow kisses in just one day. The next morning when we left for school, immediately when Chandler saw Auntie she knew what to do....blow kisses! What a smart cookie she is!!

Thank you so very much Auntie Kelly Jo for coming to stay with us my first week back to work. We love you so very much and can't wait to see you SOON!

Here are the girls getting to know one another over a nice Mexican dinner

The best part of dinner is of course DESSERT!! Just like her mama, Chandler loves her ice cream!

This one's my favorite! A match made in Heaven, these two!

You've never danced until you've danced a jig to the dualing Elmo's with Chandler. Hokey Pokey anyone?

Chandler LOVES school and Auntie Kelly Jo!!

2008-10-15T06:38:00.005-04:00

I am so proud of my sweet little girl. She is doing great at her "school" in the mornings and playing with Auntie Kelly Jo in the afternoons. I am so proud of her. I was so nervous driving to school on Monday morning but I should have known she'd love it there. SHE didn't shed a tear while Mommy just a few. The minute we walked into her room I set her down to play and the rest was history. She never looked back and waved when I said goodbye. The teachers were all so nice and assured me I could call as many times as needed. I only called once and they said she was doing great and ate a very big breakfast and lunch. Once again, no big surprise there. Her little classmates will be lucky to get a full meal now with Channie there. :) When I went back at 11:30am to pick her up, I watched her through the window as she played in cubby with toys. When I knocked on the window she looked over at me and smiled and then went back to playing. I am so happy she loves it there. Yesterday was just the same. They all commented how good she is but of course we all knew that already! :)
Her afternoon with Auntie Kelly Jo are no different. She falls asleep on the ride home from school and wakes up at home ready to play with Auntie. From what I hear, they're having a blast and Chandler is sharing all of her funny tricks with Auntie. Yesterday Kelly called me at work laughing hysterically. She said she and Chandler were playing the game where one will scrunch her nose then the other in return. Apparently this went on for quite a while until Auntie broke out in a roar of laughter with Channie following. I am so happy to have Kelly Jo here with us and its obvious Channie is also!
Gotta run. Thanks all for thinking of us during our transition week. The calls and emails have been very much appreciated!!

NY trip continued, Auntie Kelly Jo Visits, Back to work

2008-10-12T17:28:00.011-04:00

Well, our trip to NY sure was fun. I've been home to visit many times and always have fun but never quite as much as this time. Despite the unseasonably cold temperatures, we enjoyed every minute of our time there. It was so nice to see friends and family and for Chandler to meet them all. Mom had a beautiful gathering at her home on Sunday to welcome Chandler. I was so touched that my aunts, uncles, cousins and many of my mom's dear friends drove from miles away to meet my little pumpkin. She loved all the attention and even gave up a nap so she wouldn't miss a thing during the party. I couldn't believe how she hung on. It wasn't 5 minutes after the last guest left and she crashed. :)

The flights back were perfect. She slept on the first flight and entertained the second. She's so much fun to travel with so since she flies for free until she's two, it looks like we'll be taking a lot of trips between now and next September 25th!

The rest of our week was fun as usual. Knowing this was our last full week together before I go back to work, we played extra hard. She's saying a lot more words now and is standing on her own with perfect confidence. She is still seriously contemplating the walking thing but to date still opts for the safer alternative of crawling at record speeds. I have a feeling as soon as she's around the little one's at day care, she'll skip walking and move straight to a slow sprint!

Speaking of day care, the time has come. I won't write much about it right now since it is late and I'm about out of Kleenex but needless to say, I'm sad. I've enjoyed these seven weeks with her and am very grateful for this time. It's been the time of my life. There's not been a day that has gone by when she doesn't make me laugh until my stomach hurts. Sometimes my cheeks hurt from smiling so much. She's such a joy and I know that day care will be good for HER but it still hurts. The wonderful part of this week, is that my very dear friend (Chandler's Auntie Kelly Jo) has flown in from Cleveland to spend the whole week with Chandler. This is something that Kelly has wanted to do since I first mentioned my idea of adopting back in Early 2005. She's left her beautiful children, super husband and very busy job back in Ohio to come help Chandler and I through this transition of going back to work. Chandler will go to day care 1/2 days and spend the rest of the time with her Auntie Kelly Jo. They're going to have so much fun together and I am forever grateful for such a wonderful friend.

Well, here it goes. I am off for a few hours of sleep before we embark on a new journey of work and day care... oh and by the way, Chandler and I refer to her day care as school. I believe this makes her feel more grown up. :) And if you hear crying about 7am tomorrow, don't worry it's NOT the baby!

Photos of our trip to NY

2008-10-08T13:13:00.003-04:00

We're at Nana and Grampie's

2008-10-03T13:00:00.004-04:00

We made it to the North Country! Our flights on Wednesday were easy and right on time. Chandler is such a good traveler and especially enjoyed the second leg of the trip where the flight was packed. This allowed her A LOT more "flirt time" with perfect strangers. She played peek a poo with the couple behind us the entire flight. She's quite my little social butterfly!

Nana picked us up at the airport and the rest has been just lots of fun and playing. Grampie came to meet Channie that evening and we all went to the diner for dinner. Chandler is almost as good of an eater as her Grampie. Definitely a clean plate club girl like Mommy! Grampie spent the rest of the evening getting her new car seat secured safely. I tried myself for hours without any luck. What a hoot! Thanks Grampie for coming to our rescue.

Here are a few pictures of Chandler playing with her grandparents. It's easy to see that she already loves them both very very much.

Chandler's 1st Birthday!!

2008-09-29T23:47:00.016-04:00

My baby girl is now 1 year old! We've had so much fun celebrating her special day(s). On Thursday which was her actual birthday, she and I had a special lunch at Chuck E. Cheese. We were so fortunate that it was nearly empty in the place so we had a blast checking out all the rides and play areas without any wait. I only cried a handful of times as I watched this little monkey laugh and explore all the neat things there.

We later went to my friend Kelly's parents for a special birthday celebration for Channie. It was so nice of them to have cupcakes, balloons and gifts for Channie. She just loved playing with the Floyd Family and their sweet granddaughter Kaitlyn. We all laughed hysterically when we realized we were like the baby paparazzi photographing the two girls together. Chandler had such a fun day that she was asleep before we even pulled out of their driveway.

On Saturday my sister Yvonne and her family drove in from Raleigh for Chandler's party on Sunday. This was the first time they met Chandler and she took to them all very quickly. She enjoyed Natalie reading her stories and Ethan holding her. Aunt Yvonne and Uncle Chris were a huge hit too. Chandler just loved all the excitement and attention. We're hoping to visit them in Raleigh at the end of the month.

Sunday was Chandler's party. We had a great time and were so happy to have our friends and family here with us. I had a smaller cake made just for Chandler; she really enjoyed digging into the frosting. Actually, I think I'm still scrubbing that pink frosting off of her. She played for as long as she could and then finally just fell asleep in my arms during the party. I guess even party girls have to sleep!

It's hard to believe my precious baby was handed to me for the first time over a month ago now. This little muffin has brought so much joy into my life in such a short period of time. I am forever grateful to God for this treasure.

Only 1 more day and we're heading up north to see Nana and Grampie. We can't wait!

We've been home more than 2 weeks now....

2008-09-22T00:18:00.010-04:00

It's hard to believe we've been home for over two weeks now. I've never had so much fun in my entire life. Chandler is doing great! She's learning new things every day. She now says "Mama" when she sees me and also chants "bear" when she spots her giant teddy bear. She's an eating machine and this week firmly declared that she wants nothing more to do with baby food. She's all about grown up girl food now. If it doesn't require a spoon then she wants it and NOW! :)Chandler loves to be on the go and is such a great travel companion. She still doesn't love the car seat but if I time it right, she will sleep through most short trips. On Monday afternoon we went over to my friend Debi's house. Chandler had such a great time with her family. She just loves her new bouncy seat she "inherited" from their kids.
Oh and last weekend we ventured down to the Spartanburg area to visit the Stephens, Johnsons and Helms families. As usual, she loved all the attention and enjoyed playing with everyone.

That ought to do it for our road trips for a while. Our next BIG trip is in less than two weeks to go visit Nana and Grampie in NY. Yay! We can't wait and will be sure to pack lots of WARM clothes. Us Southern Girls don't do cold well! :)

Thanks for reading along and please stay tuned. Chandler's first steps are right around the corner. I just know it! Have a great week!

Auntie Debi showing Chandler around their home. She loved getting to know all of their pets too! I do believe Chandler will be HUGE animal lover just like her Auntie Debi and Cousin Erykah.

Kevin and Kyle make Chandler laugh BIG TIME! This jumpy seat used to be theirs when they were babies. They gave it to Chandler and she just loves it but I think she wishes the boys were here each day to bounce her around and make funny faces with her.

Chandler loved playing with the Johnson and Helms "big kids" and as you can see, she really warmed up to Jessie Johnson.

Clowning around with Uncle Chad while his mom and grandmother cheer them on.

Great Grandmother Taylor loves Little Channie and Channie loves her too!!

Our first 10 days together in the USA!!

2008-09-18T07:34:00.005-04:00

Our first visit to the neighborhood playground. Chandler loved it!

Our visit to my work was simply exhausting!

Patiently waiting in the waiting room for her first doctor's appointment

Gotta love a good bath!

Gymboree Music Class ... she loved the big drum

I cried when I saw her little name tag... how cute!

Let's eat!

What a fun first week back in the U.S.A.!! We've both recovered from the jet lag and our colds and are enjoying spending time with friends this week. My laptop crashed just a few days after we returned home so please forgive me for the lack of updates. I'm using my old trusty desktop so this may take a while but we'll eventually get this posted.

Unfortunately, Nana left to go back to NY last Tuesday. It was a sad morning for us all but we can't wait to see her soon when we fly up for a visit in just a few weeks. After we dropped Nana off at the airport we headed Uptown for Chandler's first doctor's visit. She did great and especially loved playing in the waiting room. She even did well with the nurse who weighed and measured her. Dr. Walker has three children of her own who were adopted from Russia and she specializes in internationally adopted patients. She said Chandler's development and health is "just perfect"! Honest, she really said that!! :) She said she's attached to me very well and appears to be in great health. Chandler endured one quick shot like a champ and then we were off for a fun mommy-daughter afternoon. We stopped at Bojangles for lunch since it was close to the doctor's office and Chandler absolutely loved it. She couldn't get enough of the egg sandwich and mac and cheese. The doctor said to let her try all kinds of foods so I did just that. She is quite the eater and so far the only thing she won't eat is cottage cheese. Nana was sure she'd love it since Yvonne and I did as babies, but no such luck. Apparently she takes after her Grampie with that one since he won't touch it either! We seem to make new friends everywhere we go and our Bojangles visit was no different. We met the nicest couple there who enjoyed Chandler and she them. They have two children who are 16 and 23 and they loved telling stories of parenthood. They gave me some wonderful advice that I will always remember, they said "Don't worry what people say about spoiling her too much.... just love her with all your heart." I loved hearing that since I struggle with even setting her down at times. :)

The next day we visited my work for several hours. Chandler loved all the ladies fussing over her and after a while even let a few hold her. She was very proud for the opportunity to show off her crawling and almost-walking talents as well as her patty cake and waving gestures. It was so much fun she had to stop for a quick nap to recharge while we were there. I work with a great bunch of folks that were truly so excited to meet her. After our work visit we headed back Uptown to the hospital for her blood work. Booooooo! That was no fun at all. It broke my heart to see the terror on her face when they started but she was a champ once again through it all. By the last vial she just gave up crying and went back to sucking her thumb. When we left the nurse said to me, "Ah, you are crying too!" Whew! So glad that's over.

We spent the rest of last week visiting with friends and getting out and about. This week has been no different. Yesterday Chandler even helped me mow the yard. She had a blast sitting in the front carrier with her ear plugs and shades. I've never had so much fun doing yard work in my life! On Tuesday Chandler attended her first Gymboree music and play class. She loved all the different instruments and the other babies too. We're going back next week for the gym class which should be fun too. She really loves playing with other kids big and small. Last week we stopped by her daycare to visit. They were so wonderful to her and introduced her to all of her future classmates and teachers. Chandler would have stayed all day if I'd let her. And at church on Sunday I had nursery duty so I requested to be in her age group so we could be together. Truth be told I think Chandler would have done fine without me but I would have cried terribly! She loved it there too and is quickly learning the art of sharing.

As you can see, I'm truly treasuring these few weeks I have to spend with her before I go back to work. I'm having the time of my life and I hope she would say the same. 'Til next time....

Our first week back in the U.S.A. ~ We're having a blast!

2008-09-15T09:52:00.008-04:00

No time for commentary.... we're off for another day of fun and adventure. I'll try to write at nap time. Here are a few pictures of visits with more dear friends this week....

Uncle Chad and Chandler sharing some cheerios. Chandler loves this silly guy!!

Auntie Nic and Chandler getting to know each other over a drink!

Our dear friends Al and Lisa Violanti's stopped over on Saturday to meet Chandler. She loved her new dolly and visiting with them. We can't wait for them to come back soon and bring their precious 3 yr old granddaughter Nyla.

Jeanne and Riley stopped over too! Riley was adopted from China in March and has the best mommy ever.... Jeanne. We love hanging out with them and its obvious Chandler and Riley will be the best of friends.

Chandler sure loves her Auntie Kelly. Kelly is the one who picked us up at the airport at 4am. Chandler sure knows a good friend when she sees one!

Go Carolina Panthers!! Thanks to this beautiful cheering squad, they won!!

Riley and Chandler anticipating a good dinner at Qdoba! More food, more food, more food!!

A special visit from Auntie Jen who traveled from Richmod, Virgina. We can't wait to see her again soon.

We're back in the U.S.A. ~ Welcome HOME Chandler

2008-09-06T08:43:00.003-04:00

We made it. Our last week in China was wonderful. We just loved the city of Guangzhou and I promise to share a lot more pictures soon. I apologize but we did not use the Internet at our hotel in Guangzhou and thus I didn't update the blog. After a VERY long trip we finally arrived back in the Carolinas at 3am on Friday morning. Unfortunately, our flight from Chicago was delayed several hours due to Hurricane Gustav so we weren't able to meet our friends and family at the airport as planned. My dear friend Kelly was so kind to wait all night for our call that we had finally landed so she could come and pick us up. Chandler was sooooo happy to meet her new Auntie Kelly. Kelly met us with a beautiful bouquet of flowers and had decorated the front of our house with a giant bunch of balloons. We were also thrilled to arrive home to this stork statue with a darling little Asian baby in tow. How cute! This was delivered from the local chapter of Families with Children From China. I just joined this group right before we left for China so it was such a pleasant surprise that they would do this for us. So the ride home in the car was new for Chandler. After Auntie Kelly and I figured out how to get her strapped in her new seat, we were headed home. Since Chandler spent the last two weeks on my lap on the buses and planes, this car seat thing was very restraining to her and not very fun. Luckily Auntie Kelly was chauffeuring us so I could play and sing songs on the drive. This should be fun next week when I'm on my own and Chandler is strapped in the back seat with no one to entertain her. Yikes!

We played for a bit when we got home and then Auntie Kelly and Nana went to sleep while Chandler and I played in her new room. We're all struggling a bit getting back on schedule but hopefully within a few days we'll be ready to roll. Last night we had a special visit from the Prescott Family. Chandler loved playing with the kids and her Auntie Debi. They made this darling "Welcome Home Chandler" poster. As you can see from the pictures, Chandler LOVES the Prescotts and can't wait to see them again soon.

As for Chandler's mommy, she's very sleepy so will finish now and post more later. These past few weeks have been a dream come to true for me. I just love this little pumpkin with all of my heart and am so grateful for all of the beautiful emails and posts we've received from friends and family near and far. Chandler is looking forward to meeting you all!! Good night!

Reed Flute Cave and the Pearl Factory in Guilin

2008-08-30T07:40:00.007-04:00

Today we took a tour of one of the local famous caves, Reed Flute Caves. Such an amazing sight to see. Pictures can hardly show its beauty. Afterward, we went to a pearl factory where we saw a fashion show and then had an opportunity to shop for pearl jewelry. While we were shopping the ladies who worked there fell in love with our Chandler. Hopefully soon I will be able to post photos of her hamming it up at the pearl counter.

Later this afternoon we went for a long walk around the lake near our hotel here in Guilin. I was in Heaven with all of the beautiful photo opportunities not to mention along the way I found a vendor who sold "Coca-Cola Light" which is very similar to Diet Coke. Diet soft drinks are not common here so I was thrilled to finally find some. Chandler took a "longevity nap" in her stroller while we walked. Longevity naps are common for all here and apparently help promote a long and healthly life. I really wish these were the "in" thing back in the U.S. :)

We leave Guilin in the morning for a quick flight to Guangzhou where we will spend the rest of our time in China. We will complete the adoption processing there and do LOTs of shopping with the precious pumpkin!

Li River Cruise in Guilin

2008-08-30T03:24:00.008-04:00

Yesterday we took a cruise on the Li River. This landscape on this river is one of the most beautiful in all of China. Chandler enjoyed the trip too and enjoyed visiting with all of the other tourists on the boat. She is not shy at all and loves to entertain a crowd.

After the cruise we had an hour to shop in the village. Now that was an experience! The locals just flock to the tourists with souvenirs and will barter relentlessly. Our group split up during this time so we could shop at our leisure. It was a hoot to catch up with Nana after the hour. She was loaded with bags on both arms. We all know she can barter like no one else so likely she landed some very good deals.

When we returned to the hotel and after dinner, we learned that Channie LOVES music. We turned on the Chinese Music TV and she went crazy dancing to the beat. Nana and I laughed so hard we couldn't stop. I'm so glad I bought some Chinese music CD's at the Wal-Mart the other day. I think she'll definitely enjoy them.

Seven Star Park in Guilin

2008-08-29T18:19:00.004-04:00

Our whole crew at the Seven Star Park in Guilin. Lots of fun for all!

We're in Guilin now ~ very beautiful city

2008-08-28T16:22:00.004-04:00

Hello! We took a five hour bus ride on Wednesday from Nanning to Guilin. It is so gorgeous here. Our guide says it is one of the most beautiful cities in China. On Thursday morning we went to The Seven Star Park to see two panda bears. The weather is subtropical here, very hot and humid. Chandler's grampa definitely would not have enjoyed the heat today but Chandler nor any of the other babies seemed to mind it one bit. I guess they are quite used to it by now. The pandas were darling and very interesting to watch. One of them hammed it up for photos while the other hung out resting in his house.
Later we went to a silk factory where we saw a demonstration on how silk is made. I never knew it came from the cocoon of a worm. Very cool!
Okay, now back to this beautiful baby girl of mine. She is growing right before my eyes! She took her first big girl bath with Mama on Wednesday and loved it. It was a good thing we brought lots of bath toys. We tried a little swimming on Wednesday night. She liked it okay until she got splashed by some of the other swimmers and then was ready to go. We may try it again tonight since I know she loves the water. Today we're headed out for a river boat cruise. I hear it is absolutely beautiful. I will be sure to take lots of photos.
Unfortunately, the Internet connection is very slow here at this hotel so I'm not able to upload photos to my blog right now. Luckily our guides have uploaded photos to my adoption agency's website. We are not able to view the pics from this hotel but I believe there are many photos of our group there. The address is http://www.lavida.org/

Happy Baby Day 2

2008-08-26T10:14:00.008-04:00

I'll make this quick since I'm needing to catch up on a few missed hours of sleep which was no fault of Chandler's considering she slept through the night! It was me who kept waking up every hour to see if she had moved. So, not only is she a happy baby, she's a great sleeper too. What an added bonus!

We enjoyed another heavenly day together. We started with a trip back to the civil affairs office where the adoption was made legal. Woohoo! Then on to a notary office, lunch, nap and believe it or not, a trip to the Super Wal-Mart. We were able to pick up Chinese formula and other things we needed for the babies there. And the best part, Chandler loves to shop. Now that's an added bonus indeed. It was over 80 degrees in the store and while I was wilting Chandler enjoyed stopping to chat with all of the employees and of course to share a grin or two. We went to a special restaurant for dinner this evening where they had a wonderful Chinese dance performance. The dancers even invited the audience to participate towards the end of the show. I gave it a try while Chandler watched in delight. She was probably thinking, "Boy, my mommy sure can't dance very well!"

Nana and Channie are asleep so I better get going myself...please enjoy a few pics from our day and thank you so very much for all of the kind emails and blog posts. Chandler can't wait to get home and meet everyone. Good night!

Meet Chandler Elise ..... A VERY happy baby!!

2008-08-25T09:35:00.009-04:00

Today was the day. We met in the hotel lobby at 3pm and took a bus to the civil affairs office. We arrived in less than 20 minutes and by 3:40pm the babies arrived. They were brought in to the room in a group and my name was the second to be called to come receive the baby. She came out holding her photo album I sent to the orphanage a few weeks ago. When they handed her to me she didn't cry but just looked intently at me as Nana snapped lots of photos. It was loud in the room as several of the babies were crying but Chandler just looked around and after about five minutes cried just a bit. All of the items I shipped to the orphanage a few weeks ago including her big soft and colorful ball from Auntie Kelly were returned to us there. We were only at the office for less than 30 minutes but it was the most incredible 1/2 hour of my life. I love this precious baby more than I had ever imagined possible. She's just beautiful from head to toe!
On the ride home she was very content watching the cars out the window while sitting on my lap and then suddenly she looked over at Nana and flashed her the most darling smile I've ever seen. Then shortly after that she gave Brian (one of the adopting dads) a big grin. When we returned to the hotel we came back to the room and played with a bunch of her toys. She tried tasting everything she could get her hands on. Then I gave her a quick bath, changed her clothes and we were off to dinner for some congee. Congee is soupy rice cereal that the babies here love including Miss Chandler. She ate like a big girl and then after she was through is when we saw the real Chandler Elise come out. She began laughing and smiling at anyone who would look at her, especially Nana. She was the life of the party! Everyone kept saying, "My, she sure is a happy baby!" And yes, I agree she sure is.
After dinner we completed some paperwork for the adoption and headed back to the room where the doctor came to give her a quick physical exam. She was very patient with all his checking on her until it came time to check her ears. She didn't like that part at all. The doctor said she is very healthy and strong. She's small at just under 17 pounds but he said nothing a little food can't fix. :)
After her physical she was pretty tired so we rocked a bit and in just a few minutes she was asleep. I hated to set her down in the crib but I know I will get to hold her bright and early tomorrow. What a wonderful, memorable day. Finally after all this time, Chandler and I are family!

We're in China!!!!

2008-08-24T14:09:00.008-04:00

We made it! We're in China. The flight from D.C. to Beijing was rather empty so I found an empty row in the back and slept several hours straight. It was great. We arrived in Beijing late in the afternoon on Saturday. Our group took a bus to dinner and then most all of us turned in early. After a great night's sleep we had an early start to an action packed day in Beijing. We toured the Forbidden City, Tianamen Square and then hiked the Great Wall of China (Nana too! She did great and went all the way to the fourth watch tower with the rest of the crew.) Words can describe how amazing all of the sights were today but hopefully a few of these pictures will. Absolutely breathtaking and overwhelming!
We had an 8pm flight from Beijing to Nanning tonight. We arrived at the hotel just after midnight. On the bus ride from the airport our guide announced that we will meet our babies at 3:30pm Monday. I am beside myself with excitement as is Nana and the rest of the families. So be ready because the next post will be our long awaited Chandler Elise... WOOHOO!

Nana's here!!

2008-08-21T07:36:00.002-04:00

Yay! My mom made it in safely late Tuesday Evening. No glitches whatsoever. She is one proud nana for sure. Natalie, Ethan (my niece and nephew) and Chandler sure are loved!

We're in the home stretch now. Just 26 hours 'til take off. That's one day of work + one more sleepless night and we're off! :)

Hotel Reservations are CONFIRMED!

2008-08-13T03:41:00.003-04:00

YAY! I received confirmation of our hotel accommodations for the trip today. It's really happening!! Okay, so you all know that I'd sleep in a cardboard box all week if I had to just so I can finally meet Chandler but the fact that these places are super cushy doesn't hurt one bit. I just had to google these and here's what I found. Crazy I know, but one of my favorite parts of course is that it looks like most of them have "normal" food either at the hotel or closeby. Phew! No fried scorpion kabobs for Chandler's mommy and nana. Eww!

Here are the four different hotels where we'll stay while in China....
http://www.hoteltravel.com/china/nanning/guangxi_wharton_international_details.htm
http://www.hotelclub.net/hotel.reservations/Henan_Plaza_Beijing.htm#
http://www.holidaycity.com/guilin-bravo/index.htm
http://www.holidaycity.com/white-swan-guangzhou/index.htm

Showered with love...again! Surprise!!!

2008-08-10T22:37:00.015-04:00

Another wonderful surprise to report.... a surprise shower at work for Chandler Elise! I had a lunch meeting scheduled for noon on Friday. Much to my surprise, when I arrived in the conference room, it was filled with beautiful pink and brown decorations (Chandler's nursery colors), a full vegetarian spread with all of my favorite foods (and hopefully Chandler's too), loads of generous gifts for Chandler Elise and most importantly, 50+ smiling faces shouting SURPRISE!! I was truly touched beyond words. Many of these folks were there 3 years ago when I first announced my decision to adopt while others have recently joined in this journey. Wow! What a kind gesture beyond words. I was actually speechless.... well just for a few minutes, at least! Then came the poem... one of my co-workers, Anna, always writes a custom poem when someone is promoted or leaves the department. This time, she wrote a poem for Chandler Elise, someone arriving and not leaving. Here it is.... grab some Kleenex before you get started: Chandler Elise-Lin by Anna Stone
A gift sent from above
Welcome to a home filled with love.
A long time of waiting, hoping, and praying...
Replaced with you laughing, cuddling, and playing.
You may not share blood, but you share one heart,
Your mommy Nicole has loved you from before your start!
Then came the glorious day in August,
The waiting is over! IT'S BEEN the LONGEST!!
Looking forward to the sweet day in September,
A homecoming to always remember!

I just love it and plan to frame it for the nursery. Needless to say, the shower was wonderful and as I watch the video of it, I still cry tears of joy and gratitude. All I can say is this is one loved and anxiously awaited baby girl. We couldn't be more blessed. Thanks, All!

Surprise ~ We're leaving for China in 12 days!!!

2008-08-10T21:32:00.004-04:00

Oh my! I returned to my office on Late Thursday Afternoon from a meeting to find the news from my adoption agency that they received approval for us to travel to China AND had tentative travel arrangements for us to leave on AUGUST 22nd! Woo hoo! That's quick. On Friday I received our actual plane tickets and itinerary. Oh my goodness! I've waited three years for this and now I'm freaking out thinking how can I possibly get everything done by August 22nd. Then I came to senses and realized of course I can be ready. I haven't slept but a few hours since I heard the good news anyhow so I have plenty of time. :) So Mom flies down to NC on the 19th to allow time for any "glitches" in air travel. We leave out on August 22nd at 9am and return on September 4th at 9pm. The best part of course is that I meet my Sweet Chandler Elise on Monday August 25th (her 11 month birthday!). I'll have her with me the entire rest of the trip (literally for those of you who don't know me well, I doubt I will set her down once for a very long time!) Here's our itinerary:
8/22/08 Leave North Carolina headed for CHINA!!
8/23/08 Arrive in Beijing for a brief sight seeing tour
8/24/08 Leave Beijing and Arrive in City of Nanning, Guangxi Province
8/25/08 Gotcha Day! – I will finally meet Chandler Elise and kiss those chubby cheeks!
8/25-8/30 Adoption Processing starts
8/27/08 Depart from Nanning to Guilin City for a 4 day sight seeing excurision
8/31/08 Flight to Guangzhou
9/1/08 Doctor's exam
9/2/08 U.S.C.I.S processing
9/3/08 Pick up visas
9/4/08 Leave Guangzou, to Beijing, to Chicago and finally arrive in NC at 9:05pm WOOHOO!

Showered with love

2008-08-04T23:56:00.008-04:00

Wow! Yesterday Chandler and I were showered with gifts from our dear friends and family. It was such a special day and a memory I will always treasure. I can't wait to tell Chandler all about it one day and let her know how much she was truly loved even long before she ever arrived home. I still get weepy with gratitude just thinking about it. My mom and dear friend Kelly Floyd hosted the party at my home. Unfortunately, there was one problem.... Mom's flight was canceled on Saturday night due to bad weather so she was not able to make it. We were so bummed but she was defnitely here in spirit and I can't wait to have her down to visit soon when we leave for China. Kelly made the day so very special. Not a single detail was left out. Her mom Kathy and sister Kristy were amazing too. Kristy made the most adorable diaper cake that I will of course never take apart because its so special. She even placed a pair of little pink tennis shoes on it which is a good luck tradition for new babies in China. Kelly took the time to place special "motherhood sayings" in each fortune cookie for the guests. Mine of course brought tears to my eyes, "Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother. ~Oprah Winfrey"

Besides just the sheer joy of having my house filled with loved ones, the gifts we received are just simply overwhelming. As you can see from the photos, I had lots of little helpers to assist with the unwrapping. Strollers, a car seat, bottles, bibs, wipes, a baby monitor, matching Vera Bradley purses for Chandler and I, high chair, gift cards, toy box, bath time toys and towels, those yummy baby smelling lotions and soaps and more.... you name it, we got it. This baby is set! Now we just need to get her here. I'm still waiting to hear about travel approval from my adoption agency but it shouldn't be much longer. I still anticipate that our flights will be booked in the next 2 weeks and that we will travel in Early September. I'll keep y'all posted....

More news on Chandler ~ She laughs aloud!

2008-07-13T10:11:00.001-04:00

Wow! What a week this has been. Certainly its been a whirlwind and one of the most amazing weeks of my life. I've had a permanent smile on my face since 11:43am on Monday when the call came in from my agency and then of course just moments later when her photos arrived in my email inbox. Words can't begin to describe the love I have for this precious baby and the gratitude I feel to God and all of my dear friends and family. I've so much appreciated the phone calls, cards and emails of well wishes and excitement. I also have connected with a lot of families via internet from the adoption community who have daughters from China also. Thank you all so very much, I can't thank you enough!

Before I share too much more about the events of the week, let me tell you what more I have learned about Chandler since Monday. By the way, did you see those cheeks? I have stared at her photos for so long and I just can't wait to kiss that precious face. Anyhow, here's the scoop..... I worked from home on Friday morning to be sure not to miss the DHL driver when he dropped off the package coming from my adoption agency that contained Chanlder's translated medical report and details of her life. Of course in between work emails and conference calls while waiting, I would pace. Finally at about noon the yellow DHL van pulled up in the cul-de-sac. Before I get my camera and get out there to greet him he had left the package near the garage and was pulling away. I was barely back in the house when I ripped open the envelope and started digging in. It was so exciting to see all of her paperwork and the original of those darling photos. Did I mention about those cheeks? :) So I made it to her medical report which was very extensive and impressive. The best part being that all of her tests checked out great and she's a very healthly little pumpkin. Her physical was as of 1/18/08 when she was just under four months old. She was just a few days old when she arrived at the orphanage in September and was very tiny at 4.4 pounds. On the day of her medical exam in January she had already grown to 13.2 pounds! I didn't know that was possible. It was funny when I read the report to my mom and asked her if she thought it was possible for her to grow so fast she said very calmly, "Why yes Nicole, that means they are feeding her very well!" Oh yeah, silly me. I'm turning into one of those panicky moms already. At four months she was eating 8 times a day (sounds like her Mommy!). She was getting up at 8am with two naps and then back down to sleep for the night at 8:30pm. Now that is my kind of sleeping schedule! She could sit and stand up by support. Here's the part that just made my heart melt....."she laughs outloud"! Also, the report said she is excited at the food or bottle, will cry in order to get attention and when she looks in the mirror she will smile. How cute, right? Oh and one more thing, her personality is described as "lively". Uh oh! Thankfully, the box was NOT checked for "obsinate sometimes". Surely that is the truth.

While her report did not indicate that she was in foster care, I found out through a wonderful organization called Grace and Hope for Children at www.grace-hope.org that indeed she is in foster care and when I arrive in China they will deliver copies of her foster care reports to me. I am so happy about this since I know she has one family loving her all day long (and feeding her too, obviously). While this might make the initial transition to me a little difficult for her since she will be grieving the loss of her foster family, over the long term it could make her ability to attach to a new family easier than if she were in the orphanage. I am so grateful to the two adoptive families who posted on my blog earlier this week to let me know about this wonderful organization.

I need to scoot for now but will write again later today. I am in the two year olds nursery room at church this morning. You better bet I'll be sneaking around to get a peek at the 9 month old room as I dream of Chandler Elise.

Here she is.....Chandler Elise Lin

2008-07-07T17:50:00.011-04:00

Here she is! After the three year wait I finally received the call today at 11:43am from my adoption agency. She is beyond beautiful. Just look at those cheeks! What's not to love?

Her given name is Lin Ying Lin

Her birthday is 9/25/2007
She lives in the province of Guangxi
at the Yulin Social Welfare Institute (orphanage)

Needless to say, I'm a very proud Mommy. We will likely travel in Early September to get her, hopefully before her first birthday. I will find out a little more information about her in the next few days. Thank you all for your love and patience as we waited for this precious little one. What a miracle! That's all I can think to say right now and of course, Thank you GOD!

Tick tock, tick tock

2008-07-07T06:01:00.002-04:00

Well, I made it through the long weekend and hopefully it'll be just a day or two before we hear something about the little pumpkin. I spent a good majority of the weekend in full nesting mode. Closets are organized, floors are scrubbed, 1/2 of one of the three books I want to read before the trip is read. Stay tuned, it shouldn't be long now......

The longest weekend EVER!

2008-07-05T08:55:00.002-04:00

Okay, normally I am all about a long weekend but this time, not so much! Referrals didn't come on Thursday but rumors on the Internet are now pointing to Monday or Tuesday. I am so ready for THE call. Stay tuned for the good news coming SOON! :) and thank you all for the prayers and the well wishes....

Are we there yet?

2008-07-02T06:28:00.003-04:00

Any day now?! It shouldn't be long now according to my adoption agency and everything I can find posted online. I will say that every time my phone rings I nearly hurt myself to answer it quickly. I can hardly imagine what it will be like when the number on my caller id finally shows up as a call from my agency.
In case you are wondering, here's how the referral notification works......
Any day now, when referrals arrive in the U.S., my adoption agency will call me with information about Chandler... her age, name, province and orphanage. They will then email me her photo that same day. Within three days they will have her medical report translated and overnighted to me along with the original photos received. I can hardly stand the anticipation. Well, please stay tuned...it shouldn't be long now before we get a glimpse of my precious little pumpkin.

The Nursery

2008-06-19T06:40:00.003-04:00

Taaaa daaahhh! Here's Chandler's room. Think she'll like it?

More GREAT news!

2008-06-18T13:23:00.003-04:00

I just spoke with my adoption agency who confirmed...
1) I will be in the next batch of referrals that is hopefully due out the first or second week of July!
2) The Olympics will likely NOT affect our travel to China to pick up Chandler since we will likely fly out 6 to 8 weeks after referral which would be Late August or Early September!!

YAY! The news just keeps getting better and better. Please stay tuned. We're likely less than 25 days away from learning about Chandler Elise (what province and orphanage she's at, how old she is, her medical report, her Chinese given name etc.) WOOHOO!!

Some good, no possibly GREAT news...

2008-06-08T21:33:00.005-04:00

Yay! Finally we’re getting close! I held off on really getting started with this blog until it looked like the dream of my referral was really within reach. Well, it looks like the wait to meet my precious daughter is drawing to an end. I heard the best news late last week. It is VERY likely that the next set of child assignments are coming out on Monday or Tuesday and “rumor” has it that it is a large “batch”. While I would hate to jinx it, it does look like the next set of referrals after this one will include mine!! Later I will explain a little how more how the process works for those of you who might not know. For now though, let me share how this all came to be. ……

Why Adoption? Why Not?
For anyone who knows anything about me, they know I LOVE children and have for many years surrounded myself with little ones no matter where I was. I truly feel as though I love my niece and nephew along with my girlfriends children as though they are my own. I never imagined I would be X # of years old and not a mommy yet but God knew different. So after years of talking about the possibility of adopting as a single mom, my dear friend Kelly said, “Why don’t you just do it?”. That was April 2005, so after discussing it more with my mom, praying for a sign from God, and reading and watching everything I could find about single parent adoption, I did it! On July 18th, 2005 I submitted my application to adopt a baby girl from China.

The Process….
After that, the process involved the “paper chase” to get all necessary documents required by my adoption agency and the Chinese Center for Adoption Affairs. Such paperwork included medical clearance, Financial Reports, Home Studies, Photos, Birth certificates, letters of reference, and the list goes on. All official documents had to be notarized, certified and authenticated for accuracy and truth. These documents had to be sent to my adoption agency which is located near Philadelphia. China received and documented the paperwork and acknowledged this by issuing me with a Log in Date, hereafter referred to as my LID. This very important date for me is January 23, 2006.

The Wait…….
After my log in date was issued, the waiting for my referral began. A referral is the photo and paper documentation of the child matched with a family for adoption. Once I accept my match, I will then wait for travel dates.
At the time of my LID, I expected to wait about 10 months – traveling to China in approximately October of 2006. Sadly, the process is now taking longer than expected. The GOOD NEWS is though that it sounds like this week China will refer children whose adopting parents have application dates of January 13 thru January 22nd, 2006. That means, I am next in July’s batch! I just can’t wait. So rather than have to call each of you daily with updates, although I certainly will if you would like, I thought I could keep everyone posted through this blog so you will know how much longer our wait will be. Let’s throw a GIANT prayer up to God that the wait is finally drawing to an end.

Finally, A blog just for Chandler

2008-03-08T09:36:00.000-05:00

It's been a long time coming but today marks the official day of the start of Chandler Elise's very own blog. I look forward to sharing our journey as we soon (hopefully) become a family and our life together thereafter. Thank you for following along....